It’s good to be a bit egoistic nowadays and care about yourself more. But sometimes thinking that everything that’s going on around is meant to influence your well or bad being may lead you to different kinds of depression and paranoia. Here are 5 issues why stop thinking the world revolves around you will help you start living in full.
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1) Shyness reduction
Believe it or not but thinking the world spins around you only increases the level of your shyness.
This is especially crucial in anyone’s career as you shouldn’t be shy to speak out when it’s needed, or you shouldn’t feel uncomfortable while giving an important presentation to the Board of Directors. The reason for it is nothing but your wrong presumption that everything that’s going on is all about you.
The thing is that people tend to care if you care. Emotions are contagious. So if you feel nervous or act that way people will feel it too. If you don’t care then they won’t usually care that much either. Your new belief – that it’s not all about you – makes you less self-conscious. You become less shy. And people will sense less of those negative feelings coming from you too.
2) Communicating easy
While talking to someone the person who puts themselves into the center of performance feels like all the eyes and ears are directed to their personality. It may cause a kind of paranoia and may distract you from some other more important things to do, and surely it makes difficulties in your communication with other people. Moreover, this may lead you to the level where you will feel uncomfortable even while being at home resting with your family.
Let it go and you will find yourself freed. You won’t care that much about the words you say. They will just go from your heart and so people will feel your sincerity. What else can be more pleasant?
3) Prevents self-condemnation
It’s very easy to misinterpret people when you are stuck in that old mindset. You get some criticism and you think: “Wow, I suck”. While it may be about the other person being human and having a bad day or week. Or it may be that your colleague’s member of a family was diagnosed with a bad illness and so he or she doesn’t really want to talk to someone including you.
So you shouldn’t seek for explanations and blame yourself. Just stop thinking you’re the center of a universe and it all will come to their places.
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4) Makes you free of illusionary responsibilities
Your child has gotten a bad mark at school? –oh, it’s you who didn’t check their home task. You failed with a new project at work? – it’s you who didn’t check whether or not each member of your team has done their work properly. You are late for the flight? – of course it’s your fault as you didn’t order another taxi service and this one didn’t provide you with the driver in time.
Can you recognize the sarcasm in my voice? Of course this all is not about you, and it’s definitely not your sphere of responsibility. Take all of this stress off you, and stop thinking you are the one to be in the center of all events.
5) Opens new sides of the world
Stopping to concentrate on yourself will open up your eyes for things that are around. You will become open to try new things. Trying something new is not only fun but a perfect way to grow too. You may start doing extreme sports, or try some bungee-jumping or ski-diving. Everything is in your hands.
Moreover, you’ll be surprised to realize that the world revolved before you were born and will continue to revolve long after you return to the dust. This world doesn’t revolve around you. This world revolves around the sun carrying you and 7.2 billion others from 196 countries and 248 nationalities.
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